Wearing my heart on my tee

For all the single ladies

My dearest BB girls, perhaps you’ve noticed I’ve taken a little break from blogging of late? I apologise for my radio silence, but I needed a little time out for myself. You see (deep breath), BB is single once again – this time, quite unexpectedly. I’ve been suffering and I’ve been sad but you know what? That suffering and sadness ultimately made me stronger. It’s shown me how supported I am. And most importantly, it’s set me free.

The funny (in hindsight) thing is… maybe, just maybe, I accidentally manifested this break-up. You see… a while ago, I was inspired to create a new t-shirt (inspired by a vintage print I had seen and loved). I designed it, I had it made, but it hadn’t arrived to the Temple yet. And then there they were, all beautifully boxed up and ready to wear – with a message that rang too true for me, in the month of my break up. I’ll let the pictures tell you the story – talk about manifestation au contraire

So here I am, again joining the ranks of the many strong, single women in Ibiza but this time gentlemen, I come with a warning. YOU BREAK IT, YOU BUY IT! The next person who breaks my heart will indeed have to pay… but let’s look on the bright side. Maybe there won’t be a next time! Right now, I’m holding out for true love…

I had to work hard to deal with this break-up quickly and in a very grown up way. Summer in Ibiza leaves you no time for moping around. I have worked hard on my inner self – let me tell you, it actually takes a lot of discipline to be a free spirit! But now I truly understand who I am and what I want more than ever before. I can do whatever the hell I want and go wherever I want to go… by myself, with someone else, it doesn’t matter. All that really matters right now is that I am happy.

One important thing to note, is I’m not looking for anybody’s sympathy. You know me – I like to tell the truth. I have no time for bullshit and I don’t want to hear any more clichés. Sure – it wasn’t meant to be. Yes, I know my soul mate will appear when I’m ready. It’s true what doesn’t kill me makes me stronger. No, he wasn’t the one for me. Right now, I am grateful for all those single souls out there who’ve supported me… and to those who tried to destroy me, well, you’ve only made me stronger.

I’d like to invite all the single ladies of Ibiza to come to BB’s Temple and join our girl gang. We should all be wearing this cropped tee like a uniform and with pride – after all, being single is nothing to be ashamed of! Team it with your favourite denim (ahh, now there’s a love affair that never fades) and match it with one of my new belts and let’s show the world we can’t be beaten!

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